Find a couple

Friends & family, please enter the List ID and either partner's surname

How to buy a gift

Step 1

Once you have seen a gift you would like to purchase, click the "View" button for your chosen gift.

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Step 2

Read the instructions carefully and take note of the couples delivery request. When ready click the button "Visit retailer & purchase gift".

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Step 3

You will be transferred to the retailers website. Add the gift to your basket and head to the checkout. Make sure to enter the correct delivery details and then pay for the item.

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Step 4

Return to the couples gift list and complete the form to mark the gift as purchased.

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Frequently asked questions

How does Marriage Gift List work?

Marriage Gift List is different from traditional gift list sites because we're not owned or operated by any retailer. Instead of buying items from us, we'll send you to third party retailers online to buy there instead.

Our goal is to give customers an open platform with the ability to add products from any store they like, while giving family and friends a quick and easy experience to purchase them. Our website is completely free to use and there are no hidden fees.

Where do I find the shipping address on the couples gift list?

The shipping address will appear at the top of the couples gift list and in the pop up of your chosen gift. Simply copy and paste the address when you go through the checkout process on the retailer site.

If you plan to give your gift in person, then ship the gift to your own address instead.

I fulfilled a gift by mistake. How do I undo this?

Don't worry, you can undo this in no time. Look for an email from Marriage Gift List with the subject "You have marked a gift as purchased" (it may appear in your spam folder).

Then simply click the edit your purchase button. You will see the item and at the bottom a link saying "Remove this purchase". Click the link and it will be available on the couples list again.

If you don't see the email in your inbox, let us know and we can resolve it for you: support@marriagegiftlist.com. Please state the couples surnames and the item in your message to us.

How do I buy a gift?

Firstly, it's important to know that you'll be browsing the couples gift requests on Marriage Gift List, but you won't be buying directly from us.

When you click on a gift you would like to buy for the couple, read the instructions carefully and take note of their delivery requirements. Proceed to the retailers website when you are ready to purchase.

On the retailers website add the gift to your basket and head to the checkout. Remember to use the delivery details as mentioned before and pay for the gift on the retailers website.

Here's the important part… return to the couples gift list and a purchase confirmation box will appear. You will then need to complete the form to mark the gift as purchased.

I have already purchased the gift, how do I mark it as fulfilled?

Select the gift on the couples gift list. A pop up will appear, click the "I understand, visit retailer" button and you will be transferred to the retailers website in a new window. Don't worry, you won't need to buy the item again. Simply go back to the couples gift list and you can tell the couple you have paid for the gift. Complete the form and confirm your purchase to mark the gift as fulfilled.

How do I buy multiple items from the same retailer?

To keep it simple you would want to add all of your items to the same shopping cart so you can go through the checkout process once (which may save on shipping costs).

To do this, click on the first item you would like to buy and proceed to the retailers website. Add the gift to your shopping cart and head back to Marriage Gift List and click the button "Yes, I have paid". Complete the form and confirm to the couple that you have purchased.

You can then select the next gift from the same retailer and proceed through to their website again. Add the gift to your basket and you will see that your previous gift will be waiting in your basket. Repeat the steps of confirming your purchase to the couple and once you have added all of the gifts you would like to buy you are ready to checkout.

It's important that you mark each gift that you purchased as fulfilled. We don't want the couples receiving any unwanted duplicates.

Can I send a cash gift?

Yes! However we do not handle the money ourselves. There are multiple ways the couple can request cash through their gift list, so it really depends on how / if they have done this. We find the most common route is through PayPal. You can go to their paypal.me link just like you would with any other gift on their list. After you have sent cash to the happy couple, head back to their gift list to mark your gift as fulfilled.

Alternatively you can always go with the more traditional route and pair your cash with a card to bring with you on the big day.

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